It’s time to just be happy. Being sad, angry, and over thinking isn’t worth it anymore. Just let the things flow. Be positive.
Find your happiness – do not be forced into collaboration.
In a world wherein group projects, team works, partners in reporting, paper works in three, it is undeniable – collaboration always takes place.
In our society, since we are born into this world, we are oblige to collaborate and establish a harmonious kind of relationship with the people around us, whether we like it or not.
From toddlers, to your childhood days, puberty stage, adolescent, young professional years and upto your adult days, haven’t you taught about collaborating, a collaboration, could be equal to forced cooperation? — to achieve a certain goal.
Some says that “working in a group is much better than working alone.”
Some says that “two head is better than one.”
Those sayings or usual quotation can be easily derived from people who are more social and have an outgoing kind of personality which is commonly known as people who are extrovert.
I would like to take into more consideration to those people who are being forced to collaborate in different situations in their lives, specially in work place. I am pointing out to those people who are more productive and efficient when they are alone, commonly known as the people who are introvert.
But having said the two sides, whether you are extrovert or introvert and even an ambivert – which is the combination of the two, each of us cannot deny the fact that there has been some situations, cases and scenarios wherein the need to collaborate and be in collaboration is a must to achieve a certain goal – your certain goal, whether for your own good or not. But because it is necessary, you are oblige to do so.
These things can cause you trouble, worry and regrets which can lead to your unhappiness – which is not healthy for yourself and for your life and being.
When things like these do happen, the only advice I can give is that, never ever disregard your true self. Yes, you are being forced to collaborate, as of the moment, for a certain good. But never ever forget who you really are – what you wanted to do and who you wanted to be.
If you feel stuck, do not tolerate. Life is consist of many unexpected things, which may guarantee good to you or not, and with that being said, if you feel toxic about your work, career or whatsoever in a collaboration – leave. Walk away. Go to your happiness.
Your happiness is what matters most. Breathe and enjoy your life. Do not let yourself be polluted by many toxic things or even people all around you. Live your life without having regrets. Live boundless. Do not ever force yourself into something or to someone which or who cannot give you the fire which can light up your whole being.
Collaboration is good, as long as you are happy in where you are and what you are doing, with the people around you.
But let yourself not be forced into collaboration wherein your happiness is nowhere to be found and seen.
Bonjour ! Comment ça va ? It’s been a long while since I last posted here in my blog. I hope you enjoyed your time reading this post. 😊
Been so busy with lots of things, especially my OJT at the Senate of the Philippines. I hope you guys are doing well. God bless everyone!
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Unravel the depths concealed within you
It’s been a while and now I’m back.
In the world, mysteries, anomalies and philosophies does always exist.
The change, the struggle, the forces and their inevitable effects can’t be resist.
Wars, complex social issues, confusion and insecurity are arising.
And I don’t even know if a time will come when all races could join hands while dancing.
Thoughts are always being asked to be outspoken.
It’s like what you’re thinking of and your opinions need to be taken.
But how about if you just wanted to keep it just for yourself?
And how about if you wanted to speak out but then you feel like no one even cares at all?
The world has been affecting you ever since you were born, being raised as a child and up to now that you are grown up.
Certain things, situations and people have made you who you are today.
They could be good, bad, crazy and chaotic.
And you, you have developed a coping – but more like defense mechanism to protect yourself.
You have built walls, walls and another walls over the walls so that the world can’t harm you.
But in the process, you have been making yourself unreachable and made you to the point where in you can’t reach out.
You have been wondering – would there be a time where someone could finally understand what you’ve been through, what you’re going through and who you truly are.
Someone who could unravel your bold thoughts, curiosity, wild ideas and even your imaginary paradise and dark views which exists all inside your incredible and fascinating mind.
Someone who could understand – someone who could see through your bloodshot eyes.
Someone who could unravel you – able to analyze your actions, body language, your simple flinching, fiddling fingers and even your very own demeanor.
Someone who could break through the walls that you’ve built – reach out to your heart and let the light in.
Someone who could make you feel and know love – a one word which can make your heart open.
Someone who could unravel your darkest fears, your inner motives, your mischievous side, your hidden intentions, your childish side and even your sweet and lovely side.
Someone who could help you achieve your wildest dreams, and make you feel hopeful for every single day that you’re with him.
To unravel your depths means too much to simply put into words what and who you truly are.
And the most complicated and complex word that is associated with it is the TRUST.
How could you find someone you can trust? Where and when would it come? Who would it be?
Are you willing to let yourself be naked – do you really want someone to unravel you?
The answer lies ahead on your soul.
Know what makes you really happy.
It will take a lot of time and courage. But when everything has finally fall into their rightful places – you can’t resist and deny it.
You can finally reach the clouds wherein magical and amazing things awaits.
Unraveling the depths.
In this very moment, You are both a masterpiece and a work in progress.
“It’s not how big the mistakes you’ve done that will define who you are – it’s how you face, overcome and correct them.”
We are humans.
We live, we laugh, we cry, we enjoy, we’re overwhelmed, we’re swayed, we’re fooled, we’re tempted – we make mistakes.
In every second,minute and hour of our everyday living in this world, the truth is, every time – we are prone to make mistakes. How? – by being indecisive, confused, tempted and unknowledgeable.
We are humans – and we are not perfect.
“We are imperfect people living in an imperfect world.” Seems similar? Yes. Sounds good? No.
Mistakes are almost similar to sins. Almost. Mistakes will just become sins if that particular mistake that you’ve done violates the will of God.
It’s a natural thing for people to have mistakes in everyday living of their lives.
You are deciding on something, yet you didn’t follow your intuition or you follow your intuition but in the end – you’ve made a mistake.
The clouds seems dark and the wind is blowing hard, yet you forgot to bring your umbrella – you’ve made a mistake.
Your day seems bad and you got home, had a fight with your mom just because of you and your hot head, and in the end, you feel like so guilty because it’s you who caused the fight that on the first place, you didn’t want to happen – you’ve made a mistake.
You are answering your test paper during exams and you know that you’ve study well, but on some questions, you haven’t got the correct answers – you’ve made a mistake.
You’are in a relationship that on the first place, you’ve thought that you and him/her will be good together forever, yet, looks like you’re wrong, both of you broke-up after a while and screwing everything about him/her after – you’ve made a mistake.
You are happily playing Pokémon GO outside your house and accidentally tripped on a rock or worst, you’ve come down on an open manhole – you’ve made a mistake.
There are lots of mistakes that you might encounter and experience, yet, don’t take them all negatively.
Be optimistic and think that your past mistakes will help you shape your today and your today’s mistake will help you shape your tomorrow.
“Don’t let your mistakes bring you down.”
Remember, you are made by the Greatest Creator in the entire universe.
For Him, you are worthy and perfect no matter how many mistakes you make – He created you – You are a masterpiece.
Whenever you are feeling down and so down, because of your everyday struggle in this world and because of dealing with your mistakes, Do not give-up.
“And the worst part is, before it gets any better we’re headed for a cliff. And in the free fall I will realize, I’m better off when I hit the bottom.” – Hayley Williams / Paramore
Mistakes are part of your everday life to help you learn, grow and become better than your yesterday. Consider them as thrills in your life. You are a work in progress.
If you might end up in a dead end -change your route. And of you fall off from a cliff, it’s still not the end – climb up or adapt and explore the place wherein you fell. Move forward. Don’t stop.
Though sometimes, of all the things that you do and you’ve done, the only thing that people see from you is your mistakes – do not let them shaken and weaken you.
Always bear in your heart and mind and in the entirety of you – In this very moment, You are both a masterpiece and a work in progress.
Mistakes can be erase without a trace.
But a mistake that is consciously done twice or more, it’s not a mistake anymore – it’s a choice, and in there, you will start to leave traces that will be hard for you to erase.
Still, don’t loose hope.
The traces will be hard for you to erase, yet, in due time, with your full effort and will to, it would be possible for you to have an upgraded eraser or the best part – another sheet of paper, all new.
Move forward and leave your regrets. Our mistakes are sometimes turned into secrets.
Publicly, personally or secretively, you will be forgiven in your mistakes as you ask for forgiveness. In that case, you will receive true happiness. And as you move forward with those two, there is something that will be restored – your liveliness.
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Your words aren’t enough – your body will state what’s the obvious.
Do you get happy? Do you get sad?
Do you get afraid? Do you get excited?
Do you get confused? Do you get shocked?
Do you get irritated and do you get angry?
Of course – you do.Each of us do.
We all get happy, sad, afraid, excited, confused, irritated and angry in different times and in different situations.
However, words alone can’t describe whether you are happy at the moment and then get sad later on; whether you are irritated and angry at the same time and your feelings for that particular time has been expressed by words yet, they are still not enough to state the obvious reason why you’re being as such. Then what’s next? – you cry.
Sometimes, people around can’t find out what’s the obvious thing about what you are feeling, why you are doing such things, and why are you acting like that.
It’s hard. It’s hard not to be understood.
It’s really hard not to see the obvious things about you – like no one can’t understand you. But I believe, if you’re not being understood by those persons around you, the natural thing will happen. Whether you are happy, sad, angry, and irritated, the key to state the obvious situation you were in is – your tears.
Personally, when I get overwhelmed by happiness and my body is responding to it, I get hyped – that’s the obvious thing. But when I get irritated and angry at the same time, and my mother doesn’t understand me by the words and reasons that I’ve told her – I cry. Yes. I still cry. That’s the natural way that my body do to state the obvious thing about me, that my mother can’t understand. Crying is the only way for her to figure out.
And you know what? Whenever I cry, the most obvious thing about me, is that I used to cry like a 5 year old child who didn’t get what she wants.
There are lots of things for you to figure out the obvious things about the people around you. You must be aware and approachable.
Some people doesn’t want others to see through them and what they do is they keep hiding the obvious facts about them.
“Whether it is good or bad – the truth will always find it’s way to come out and express the obvious what abouts of you.”
When it comes to expressing your feelings, some can’t really express themselves freely and clearly because of different reasons. Yet, body language is in there to express your obvious agenda to the person you are expressing yourself with.
There are still some people who can’t really find out the obvious in an obvious situation or person. Those persons obviously shows who they are.
If you have something within you that you’ve been keeping just with yourself alone and you feel like you’ve been greatly affected by it negatively, have someone to listen to you.
If you are emotionally and mentally depressed, don’t make your worries filed up until you’re fully loaded – release it.
You have to let others see and know what’s the obvious thing about you, for you not to get anxious and be am obnoxious kind of person.
Have a great day everyone! God bless.
Share what’s yours. I would love to hear it.
Have you tried building or constructing a miniature something?
Maybe a miniature toy character, a miniature car, a miniature house – a miniature you.
Me? I’ve done them all. Let’s start with the literal meaning of the word miniature.
I’m going to tell a short story about me. When I was on my high school years, I’ve decided to be in the shop or a particular subject skills of Drafting Technology. It was all about arts from the basic up to the architectural/engineering level.
When I was already at my 4th year, 4th grading period, my teacher/instructor have told us to make a miniature house, and of course before we are able to make a miniature house, we’ve been through lots of things first – the sketching, the planning, measuring, scaling, the materials and of course, the perspective view, or the real image of the house in different perspective. Before the end of the grading, we’re able to make a miniature house – like a real engineer.. Yippee! And of course, it’s a whole set, the landscape, the roof, the rooms, the furniture and the decorations. It’s kinda look like my dream house. 🙂
It’s not an easy thing to do, yes. But if you love what you are doing, then in the process, enjoyment is all you’re gonna feel.
Based from the dictionary that I have with me, miniature is defined as a small version of something; a model of reduced scale.
Miniature can be the small version of whatever you might think or do, a model of something which is reduced in smaller scale.
Let’s now go to the deeper meaning of it.
“Whenever you are planning on something or whatever you are planning to do, it was already created and already happened in your mind.”
When you are thinking or planning, the creation already takes place in your mind. Then when you’ve already done the plan and achieved what you want to have, it’s all done already. However, what do you think comes in between these two?
We’re not always perfect and on the right timing every time to finish our plan right away – there goes the miniature, your miniatures. What’s your miniatures?
For instance, when you were still a child and too ignorant and innocent in this world’s flow, haven’t you done something like playing cooking with your miniatures cooking materials? You wanted to be a chef that time and you’re not yet capable of that plan, you’ve settled first in your miniatures cooking materials.
Also, when you are planning to be a model, an actress, a flight attendant, you are going to go through first to the training and in that process, you are just few steps away from your plan. But for that particular moment, your plan of becoming what you want is just on a smaller scale, you’are still on the small version of a real flight attendant.
When you are trying to experiment on something, are you going to try it in the big one right away or practice first in the smaller one? Of course – you will do it on the smaller model first.
There are lots of miniatures that you can consider in your life and in living in this world.
Miniatures are really a great help actually, for it may be something you need for and will help you before you consider coming right away or jump right away to the main thing in your life.
Always remeber, failures are allowed in the miniature. Yet, you have to learn and earn different things for you to be able to move forward and finally achieve your goal.
We are human creatures living in this nature, with a big smile showing out our dentures, while seeking adventures in our different life ventures.
What’s your miniatures? Share what’s yours. 🙂
3 words, 8 letters – I LOVE YOU
❤ English – I love you
Filipino – Mahal kita
Japanese – Aishiteru or Anata ga daisuki desu
Mandarin – Wo ai ni
Taiwanese – Wa ga ei li
Cambodian – Soro lahn nhee ah
Thai – Phom rak khun
Tunisian – Ha eh bak
French – Je t’aime, Je t’adore
German – Ich liebe dich
Greek – S’agapo
Czech – Miluji te
Dutch – Ik hou van jou
Armenian – Yes kez sirumem
Croatian – Volim te
Bulgarian – Obicham te
Ethiopian – Afgreki’
Afrikaans – Ek het jou lief
Finnish – Mina rakastan sinua
Georgian – Mikvarhar
Hawaiian – Aloha Au Ia`oe
Icelandic – Eg elska tig
To female – “ani ohev otach” (said by male) “ohevet Otach” (said by female)
To male – “ani ohev otcha” (said by male) “Ohevet ot’cha” (said by female)
Irish – Taim i’ ngra leat
Italian – Ti amo
Hungarian – Szeretlek
Korean – Sarang Heyo or Nanun tangshinul sarang hamnida
Latin – Te amo
Macedonian – Te Sakam
Malay – Saya cintakan mu / Aku cinta padamu
Latvian – Es tevi miilu
Lebanese – Bahibak
Lithuanian – Tave myliu
Moroccan – Ana moajaba bik
Luxembourgeois – Ech hun dech gaer
Bokmaal – Jeg elsker deg
Nyonrsk – Eg elskar deg
Persian – Doo-set daaram
Polish – Kocham Ciebie
Russian – Ya tebya liubliu
Portuguese – Eu te amo
Romanian – Te iubesc
Polish – Kocham Ciebie
Portuguese – Eu te amo
Romanian – Te iubesc
Russian – Ya tebya liubliu
Serbian – Volim te
Spanish – Te quiero / Te amo
Swedish – Jag alskar dig
Swiss-German – Ich lieb Di
Turkish – Seni Seviyorum
“3 words, 8 letters – I love you“
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